An exercise to help boost self-esteem

Research shows that positive emotions help us to engage in new types of behaviours that can help break long standing patterns. On the other hand, studies show that negative emotions result in narrow, survival-based behaviours. One way to help reduce negative emotions is to be conscious of personal strengths. Here is a quick exercise that has been shown to help people reduce their focus on narrow, survival-based thinking and to help become more aware of the things that they are good at.

INSTRUCTIONS: Go through the following list and write out an example of when you used any of the following things. Going through the list, see if there are things that you notice are personal strengths that have. 

1. STRENGTHS OF WISDOM AND KNOWLEDGE
1. Creativity (Originality, Ingenuity)
2. Curiosity (Interest, Novelty-Seeking, Openness to Experience)
3. Open-Mindedness (Judgment, Critical Thinking)
4. Love of Learning
5. Perspective (Wisdom) 

2. STRENGTHS OF COURAGE
1. Bravery (Valor)
2. Persistence (Perseverance, Industriousness)
3. Integrity (Authenticity, Honesty)
4. Vitality (Zest, Enthusiasm, Vigor, Energy) 

3. STRENGTHS OF HUMANITY
1. Love
2. Kindness (Generosity, Nurturance, Care, Compassion, Altruistic Love, Niceness)
3. Social Intelligence (Emotional Intelligence, Personal Intelligence) 

4. STRENGTHS OF JUSTICE               
1. Citizenship (Social Responsibility, Loyalty, Teamwork)
2. Fairness
3. Leadership 

5. STRENGTHS OF TEMPERANCE
1. Forgiveness and Mercy
2. Humility and Modesty
3. Prudence
4. Self-Regulation (Self-Control) 

6. STRENGTHS OF TRANSCENDENCE
1. Appreciation of Beauty and Excellence (Awe, Wonder, Elevation)
2. Gratitude
3. Hope (Optimism, Future-Mindedness, Future Orientation)
4. Humour (Playfulness)
5. Spirituality (Religiousness, Faith, Purpose)

For example:

1a) A lot of people have said that I have a creative streak. I used to love painting and I was good at it when I was in high school. I am a fairly right-brained person and I can come up with creative solutions to problems that other people don't always see. 

1b) Curiosity. I guess I am a pretty curious person. I spend a lot of time reading about self-help and looking at self-improvement information on the web. I am curious about other people sometimes. 

1c) Open-mindedness: Well I am not always open-minded but I try to be non-judgmental most of the .... etc.